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Gardening

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Unicorns are not all sparkles

Last time I went to a couples and single ladies night I got asked if…

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Hello gorgeous

The industry has a habit of setting unmeetable standards for people both within it and…

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Image – Purple Mamba Club Nottingham. Photograph by Madam Oxide

Unicorns are not all sparkles
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Unicorns are not all sparkles

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Gardening
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Gardening

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Hello gorgeous

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Gardening

Oxide8 months ago04 mins

No I am not suddenly running outside to sort out the exterior of my house. I am thinking more of a different type of garden. When you work in the adult lifestyle business, or even partake of it’s pleasures. Lets face it going out is not as simple as just getting dressed up and leaving…

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Unicorns are not all sparkles

Oxide8 months ago07 mins

Last time I went to a couples and single ladies night I got asked if I was the only Unicorn in the building. This rather threw me, not just because of the way he was asking, but I’ll come back to that in a minute, but because I had never really stopped to consider myself…

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The industry has a habit of setting unmeetable standards for people both within it and those who sit outside looking in. This is not a new thing. We have struggled with unrealistic beauty expectations since the dawn of the camera, the creation of the model, hourglass figure, the perfect curves, flawless skin, the unending smile,…

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Making gingerbread cookies today . It's a wholesom Making gingerbread cookies today
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It's a wholesome family activity 😁
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Voting is open for the UK Fetish Awards. You can v Voting is open for the UK Fetish Awards. You can vote once a day, so get clicking.
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It's not hard.... go to the UK Fetish awards website and find me in the Dommes section. Then click vote.
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Do it once a day and get your friends on board, too.
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Go on, I'll be extra nice if you do, I promise 😈
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Or hit the link in my story......
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Can you guess what I am reviewing from my kit bag Can you guess what I am reviewing from my kit bag for November's issue of Twisted Edge magazine?
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Want to know the difference between these three be Want to know the difference between these three beauties from my kit bag?
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Then preorder October's edition of Twisted Edge magazine and you can find out. 
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Alternatively, you could book onto one of my events or private sessions to taste them for yourself 😉
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It's that time of year when I change up my mugs. . It's that time of year when I change up my mugs.
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At the risk of getting insta told off for being to At the risk of getting insta told off for being too blatant, here is today's important message.
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Kink is not s-x
S-x can be kink
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It needs to be blatantly simple.
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It's been a few years since I've done this routine It's been a few years since I've done this routine, but since it's Haven at the weekend and Dystopia in a few weeks I've been prepping fpr the apo apocalypse this afternoon and this photo caught my eye as I was looking through my album.
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My hair was blue, but the lighting was red and made me look like a brunette!
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I still get the blame for glitter being everywhere now!
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Come join me at Haven for a larp in a field this weekend details can be found on Facebook or at Dystopia for a session of kink at Abfab in Heathrow in October or Xtasia in Birmingham in November. Details on Fet or Spicymatch 
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The really glamorous bit of getting ready that you The really glamorous bit of getting ready that you never normally see....
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Curl pinning.
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I do messy curls, especially when I keep stopping to write something else I have just thought of! 
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And I still didn't  burn my ears 😁
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Don't make yourself different for anyone. Be the h Don't make yourself different for anyone. Be the humorous, beautiful, strange, se y, fascinating, intelligent, weirdo that you were born to be. 
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Due to a noisy door issue, the delightful hotel ha Due to a noisy door issue, the delightful hotel has sorted me a different office.... I mean room for the remainder of my stay.
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It happens to have a slight upgrade 😍
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The writing is going well 👌 
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May have to test the other facilities soon.....
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I'm living it up on my writers retreat in the midl I'm living it up on my writers retreat in the midlands for a few days. 
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It does also happen to have a sauna, steam room, and pool, too.
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And maybe there's a couple of nights out planned.....
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All in the name of research, of course 😉
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LAUNCH NIGHT . UNLOCKED . 16th November at 7pm un LAUNCH NIGHT
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UNLOCKED 
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16th November at 7pm until 2am
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At GGs in Runcorn
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Have you ever wanted to explore your kink side?
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Do you have desires that you hide inside?
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Is there a part of you that you want to explore but you do not know how?
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Then UNLOCKED is the event for you.
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During the evening you will be introduced to up to five kinks. These fetishes may or may not be for you. It will be a wonderful journey of guided exploration under the expert instruction of your host Madam Oxide. Then, after your senses have been aroused and you are ready for more, the playrooms will be opened.
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This is a crossover event, and your host Bonnie will be on hand to make sure you behave and play nice.
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It is important that you turn up on time or you will miss out on some of the sessions. The venue opens for the welcome at 7 pm, and the icebreakers will start at 7.30-7.45pm. By midnight, we want to be in the playrooms and having fun, so don't be late.
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The evening is suitable for both total newcomers to swinging, experienced swingers, those with no kink experience, or those who have plenty. There is always something new to learn, and we promise we will find some unusual kinks to show you as well as some traditional ones. You do not have to come with a partner, in fact individuals are very welcome.

We do not differentiate on gender, sexuality, race, or age. All tickets are the same price for this event.

Dress code is smart please. Then smart dress down. Make yourself feel worth it. Wear something that makes you feel good about yourself.

LAUNCH NIGHT SPECIAL

Tickets are £20 per person and include a welcome drink and all the kink introductions and then the night of play. Plus if you unlock a new kink you get a special unlocked surprise to take away and a code to upgrade this to a t-shirt.

NOTE: There will be no blood, scat or urine play, no degradation or humiliation. This event is about fun and pleasure
Prototypes . Something for the weekend? . . #gard Prototypes 
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Still going strong.... what colour should I do nex Still going strong.... what colour should I do next?
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Which is your favourite colour? . . . #pasties #pa Which is your favourite colour?
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It's not a new thing, the British obsession with t It's not a new thing, the British obsession with the weather. We like to know what it is going to do so we can be appropriately attired. One wouldn't want to be caught short without ones umbrella or wellington boots. Or my mother's plan was always to take them anyway to make sure it didn't rain. She had a magical power over the elements you see. We would consult our barometers and thermometers. We would pour through newpapers and listen to the radio broadcasts. Now, we just consult the miniature screens or the small black ball that talks. They tell us what the weather will do today so we can plan accordingly. And then I still throw the coat and boots in the car just in case. 
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Who wants to have a secret soiree in here? . . . . Who wants to have a secret soiree in here?
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It's not dead, it's sleeping 😴 . . . . #parrot It's not dead, it's sleeping 😴 
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Yes you You gorgeous thing 😍 . Tag your fri Yes you 
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